Berean Standard Bible
Because Joseph her husband was a righteous man and was
unwilling to disgrace her publicly, he resolved to divorce her quietly.
King James Bible
Then Joseph her husband, being a just man, and not
willing to make her a publick example, was minded to put her away privily.
New English Translation
Because Joseph, her husband to be, was a righteous
man, and because he did not want to disgrace her, he intended to divorce her
privately.
Greek Text:
Ἰωσὴφ δὲ ὁ ἀνὴρ
αὐτῆς, δίκαιος ὢν καὶ μὴ θέλων αὐτὴν δειγματίσαι, ἐβουλήθη λάθρᾳ ἀπολῦσαι
αὐτήν.
Transliteration:
Iōsēph de ho anēr autēs, dikaios ōn kai mē thelōn autēn
deigmatisai, eboulēthē lathra apolusai autēn.
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Study Bible:
Joseph her husband
The phrase highlights Joseph's legal and social status as
Mary's betrothed, which in Jewish culture was as binding as marriage itself.
The Greek word for "husband" here is "ἀνήρ" (anēr),
indicating a man of mature age and responsibility. Joseph's role as Mary's
husband is crucial, as it establishes Jesus' legal lineage to the house of
David, fulfilling Old Testament prophecies about the Messiah's descent.
was a righteous man
The term "righteous" is translated from the
Greek word "δίκαιος" (dikaios), which means just, upright, or
virtuous. In the Jewish context, a righteous man was one who adhered to the Law
of Moses and lived a life pleasing to God. Joseph's righteousness is not merely
legalistic but reflects a deep moral integrity and compassion, setting the
stage for his merciful actions towards Mary.
and unwilling to disgrace her publicly
This phrase reveals Joseph's compassionate character. The
Greek word for "disgrace" is "δειγματίζω" (deigmatizō),
meaning to make a public example of someone. Joseph's unwillingness to expose
Mary to public shame demonstrates his love and respect for her, as well as his
desire to protect her dignity, even when he believed she had been unfaithful.
he resolved to divorce her quietly
The decision to "divorce her quietly" shows
Joseph's merciful nature. The Greek word for "divorce" is
"ἀπολύω" (apolyō), which means to release or send away. In Jewish
law, a formal public divorce could have led to severe consequences for Mary,
including social ostracism or even stoning. Joseph's choice to handle the
matter discreetly reflects his desire to act justly while minimizing harm,
embodying the balance of justice and mercy that is central to Christian ethics.
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Commentary:
1. Joseph’s Character
The verse begins by highlighting Joseph’s righteousness:
"Joseph her husband was faithful to the law." This means he was a
devout man, committed to adhering to Jewish customs and laws. His faithfulness
to the law showcases his integrity and the seriousness with which he regarded
his commitments and relationships.
2. The Dilemma
Joseph finds himself in a difficult position. According
to Jewish law at the time, engagement (or betrothal) was a binding contract.
Discovering that Mary was pregnant before their marriage would have been seen
as a serious breach of this contract. The natural assumption would be that she
had been unfaithful, which carried severe social and legal consequences,
including potential public disgrace and even stoning.
3. Compassion and Mercy
Despite the apparent betrayal, Joseph's response is
compassionate. Instead of seeking to publicly disgrace Mary or exact the full
extent of the law's punishment, he chooses a path of mercy: "he had in
mind to divorce her quietly." This quiet divorce would protect Mary from
public shame and possibly severe punishment. This action reflects Joseph's love
and respect for Mary, and his desire to handle the situation with as much
kindness as possible.
4. The Quiet Divorce
Divorcing quietly would involve handing Mary a private
bill of divorce, possibly with only two witnesses, rather than making a public
spectacle of it. This approach would allow both Joseph and Mary to maintain
some dignity amidst the situation. Joseph’s decision underscores the profound
tension between adhering to the law and extending grace.
5. Larger Implications
This verse also sets the stage for the divine
intervention that follows. Joseph's initial plan to quietly divorce Mary
demonstrates his humanity—balancing righteousness with mercy. However, his
plans are later redirected by an angelic visitation, reassuring him of Mary’s
faithfulness and the divine nature of her pregnancy (Matthew 1:20-21). This
divine revelation not only changes Joseph's course of action but also
underscores the significance of Jesus’ miraculous conception.
Conclusion
Matthew 1:19 encapsulates a powerful narrative of faith,
righteousness, compassion, and divine intervention. Joseph's character and his
initial response to an unexpected and challenging situation highlight the
virtues of mercy and justice. This verse, along with the surrounding context,
illustrates the extraordinary circumstances surrounding Jesus’ birth and the
profound faith required of those involved in this divine plan.