Job 5:18

for He wounds, but He applies the bandage;
    He injures, but His hands also heal.
Job 5:18 Modern English Version (MEV)
 
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For he maketh sore, and bindeth up,.... Or, "though he maketh sore, yet he bindeth up" (d); as a surgeon, who makes a wound the sorer by probing and opening it, to let out the matter and make way for his medicine, and then lays on the plaster, and binds it up: so God causes grief and puts his people to pain, by diseases of body, or by making breaches in, their families and estates, and such like cutting providences; and then he binds up their breach, and heals the stroke of their wound, and in the issue makes all whole again: so in spiritual things; he cuts and wounds, and gives pain and uneasiness, by the sharp twoedged sword of the word, and by his Spirit making use of it; and lays open all the corruption of nature, and brings to repentance and humiliation for all transgressions; and then pours in the oil and wine of pardoning grace and mercy, and binds up the wounds that are made:
 
he woundeth, and his hands make whole; or "heal" (e); the same thing is meant, expressed by different words; and the whole suggests, that every afflicted man, and particularly Job, should he behave well, and as he ought, under the afflicting hand of God, would be healed, and become sound and whole again, in body, mind, family, and estate; for, though God for the present caused grief, yet he would have compassion, since he did not willingly grieve the children of men; did not do it for his own pleasure, but for their good; as a skilful surgeon cuts and wounds in order to heal; see Deu_32:39.
 
(d) Assembly's Annotations. (e) תרפינה "sanabunt", V. L. Pagninus, Montanus, &c.
 
John Gill’s Exposition of the Bible
 
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The points being made here are sound. The issue remains in how they are being used. We have a great tendency to use Scripture as a weapon rather than as a gift of love, mercy and compassion. We need desperately to learn how to use our words properly, and that begins with asking God to create a new heart within us.